THE 16 LESSONS • LESSON 4

Cookies Are a Food Group

You don't have to hold your tears back. Especially in the early days of grief, crying is part of healing.

During those first weeks after Dave died, nutrition wasn't exactly at the top of my priority list. If someone brought me a meal, I was grateful. If all I could manage, or all I wanted, was a couple of chocolate chip cookies, that was okay too.

Surviving came before thriving. There would be plenty of time later to get back to healthy habits.

Right then, I just needed to make it through another day.